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How to Meditate in Bed: A 5-Minute Routine for Sleep
A simple 5-minute routine you can do without sitting up: longer exhales, a quick body scan, and gentle attention cues that make sleep easier.
Quick start (2 minutes)
If you are reading this in a real moment (before a meeting, mid‑slump, post‑work), do not try to absorb everything. Use the page like a menu and pick one move to test today.
- Skim the TL;DR and choose one line that feels doable.
- Take one slow inhale through the nose and a longer, relaxed exhale.
- Read one section, then apply it immediately (even if it is imperfect).
In 30 seconds
If you are already in bed but your brain is still finishing the day, do not wrestle your thoughts. First downshift your body: quiet nasal breathing with longer exhales. Then move attention through the body. Five minutes is enough to tip the system toward sleep.
The goal (and the common mistake)
You are not trying to be great at meditation.
You are trying to make it easy for sleep to show up.
The common mistake is pushing for silence. Effort can keep arousal high.
The 5-minute in-bed routine
Minute 0-1: Longer exhales (4-6)
Inhale through your nose for 4.
Exhale through your nose for 6.
Keep the breath quiet. If you feel air hunger, do 3-5 for a minute, then return to 4-6.
Follow the walkthrough: Extended Exhale (4-6) .
Minute 1-3: 4-7-8 (optional)
If you like a clear script, do 4 gentle rounds of 4-7-8 Breathing .
Keep the hold soft. If the hold feels edgy, skip this and stay with 4-6.
Minute 3-5: Body Scan
Now stop steering and start noticing.
Do a short Body Scan from face to feet:
- Brow
- Jaw
- Shoulders
- Chest
- Belly
- Hips
- Legs
On each exhale, let the next area soften a little.
If your mind races
- Name it once: silently say “thinking” or “planning”, then return.
- Give your brain a job: count exhales 1-10, then restart.
- Reduce the dose: 2 minutes done consistently beats 10 minutes fought.
When to adjust
- If you associate bed with work or rumination, do the first minute seated, then lie down.
- If breath control triggers panic symptoms, keep the breath natural and lean on the body scan.
What to try next
If you want the daytime fundamentals (and a first-week plan), start with: How to Meditate .
If this helps, keep your bedtime stack simple:
- Most nights: 4-6 breathing.
- Tired but wired nights: 4-7-8 (or 4-6 if holds do not work for you).
- When you have more time: a longer body scan.
If evenings are the bigger issue, start with the after-work reset hub .
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Frequently Asked Questions
Can I meditate lying down without falling asleep?
What if meditation makes me more awake?
Is 4-7-8 safe for everyone?
How long should I do this before sleep?
What should I do if my thoughts race?
References
- Slow, paced breathing increases HRV and supports autonomic balance.
- Resonance-rate breathing (about six breaths per minute) leverages baroreflex loops to boost HRV.
- Presleep slow breathing has reduced awakenings and improved sleep metrics in small trials.
- Slow, paced breathing before bed improves sleep efficiency and autonomic balance in selected samples.
- 4-7-8 breathing modulates HRV after sleep deprivation, illustrating its calming mechanism.
- Mindfulness programs that include body scan practice have improved sleep quality in older adults.
- Body scan training is a core element of MBSR, which reduces anxiety in clinical groups.
- A 2022 systematic review found body scan alone builds mindfulness, with paired habits supporting broader health outcomes.
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