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Diaphragmatic Breathing: How to Breathe With Your Diaphragm

FeelClear Team 7 min read

A simple way to get out of shallow chest breathing: a 2-minute practice, quick checkpoints, and what to do when it feels hard.

This article is part of the After-work reset hub.

Quick start (2 minutes)

If you are reading this in a real moment (before a meeting, mid‑slump, post‑work), do not try to absorb everything. Use the page like a menu and pick one move to test today.

  • Skim the TL;DR and choose one line that feels doable.
  • Take one slow inhale through the nose and a longer, relaxed exhale.
  • Read one section, then apply it immediately (even if it is imperfect).

In 30 seconds

If your breathing lives in your chest when you are stressed, diaphragmatic breathing is the simplest reset. Put one hand on your belly, inhale through the nose so the belly rises, then exhale slowly so it falls. Five to ten slow breaths is enough to take the edge off.

The 2-minute practice (start lying down)

1) Set up

Lie on your back with knees bent (or feet on the bed). Place:

  • One hand on the chest.
  • One hand on the belly, just below the ribs.

2) One quiet breath

Inhale through your nose for 4 counts.

Aim for this feeling: the belly hand rises first, the chest hand stays fairly still.

Exhale slowly for 6 counts and let the belly hand fall.

3) Repeat 5-10 times

Keep it small. You are not trying to take a huge breath. You are trying to move the breath lower.

If you want a guided walkthrough, use: Diaphragmatic Breathing .

Checkpoints (so you know you are doing it right)

  • The inhale feels low, like it fills the belly and the sides of the ribs.
  • The exhale is longer than the inhale.
  • Your face and jaw can stay soft.
  • You are not gulping air.

Common issues (and quick fixes)

“My belly will not move”

Start smaller.

Instead of trying to push the belly out, think: “let the belly soften on the inhale”.

Sometimes it helps to relax the jaw and exhale first.

”I feel more anxious”

This is usually about control.

Drop the counting and do this instead:

  • Gentle inhale.
  • Longer, unforced exhale.

If breath control triggers panic symptoms, stop and return to natural breathing.

”I get light-headed”

You are probably over-breathing. Make each breath 30% smaller and slow the exhale.

When to use it

  • Right before sleep, if you want calm without breath holds.
  • During a stress spike, before you respond.
  • After work, to signal “we are off”.

For a full bedtime routine, pair it with: How to Meditate in Bed .

What to try next

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is diaphragmatic breathing?
It is breathing that uses the diaphragm so your belly and lower ribs expand on inhale and soften on exhale, instead of breathing high in the chest.
How do I know I am breathing with my diaphragm?
Your lower belly and lower ribs should move more than your upper chest. The breath feels low and quiet, not like a big chest lift.
How long should I practice diaphragmatic breathing?
Start with 2 minutes (5-10 slow breaths). If it helps, build to 5 minutes. Consistency matters more than duration.
Why does diaphragmatic breathing make me feel dizzy?
Usually it means you are breathing too big or too fast. Make the breath smaller, slow the exhale, and return to normal breathing if dizziness continues.
Is it better to practice lying down or sitting?
Lying down is usually easier at first because gravity helps the belly rise. Once it clicks, practice sitting so you can use it anywhere.

References

  1. Diaphragmatic breathing reduces cortisol and improves attention in healthy adults.
  2. Slow breathing enhances vagal activity and lowers sympathetic arousal.
  3. A meta-analysis found slow breathing interventions reduce anxiety and stress markers.

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