Before the conversation
Slow down with Extended Exhale, then ground with Grounding 5‑4‑3‑2‑1.
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Social Stress
Warm presence when it matters
Lower activation and keep your voice warm. FeelClear blends extended exhale, grounding, and simple mantra cues so you can handle tough conversations without tensing up. A few quiet resets help you recover mid‑conversation.
During
Keep pace and voice warmth: a 4‑6 breath now and then and a short mantra phrase between segments.
After
Clear adrenaline with Open Awareness and close with two phrases of Loving‑Kindness.
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Techniques for relational safety
Long exhales, grounding, and open awareness to slow down without going flat.
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breathwork
Extended Exhale (4-6): Calm Your Nerves Before a Meeting
When your chest is tight and thoughts will not line up, breathe in for four counts and out for six. Two to five minutes through the nose steadies HRV and melts tension so you can speak clearly.
2-5 min 10-20 cycles -
somatic
Grounding 5-4-3-2-1: When Panic Spikes, Come Back to Now
Name five things you can see, four you can feel, three you can hear, two you can smell, and one you can taste. It pulls attention out of runaway thoughts and back into the present.
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meditation
Open Awareness (Open Monitoring): Less Fixing, More Noticing
Sit and notice sounds, thoughts, and sensations coming and going without trying to fix them. Open awareness practice builds spacious, non-reactive attention.
4-12 min -
meditation
Loving-Kindness (Metta): Warm Phrases, Softer Edges
Repeat simple goodwill phrases for yourself, a neutral person, and others. Loving-kindness training warms emotional tone when irritation spikes.
3-9 min -
meditation
Mantra (Focus Phrase): One Word, Quieter Mind
Repeat a neutral word or phrase on each breath. The steady rhythm quiets mental noise and helps you reset attention fast.
2-12 min
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