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The Four-Minute Pre-Meeting Reset
Show up steady and clear with a four-minute combo of Box Breathing, Extended Exhale, and Micro-Release before your next client call.
Quick start (2 minutes)
If you are reading this in a real moment (before a meeting, mid‑slump, post‑work), do not try to absorb everything. Use the page like a menu and pick one move to test today.
- Skim the TL;DR and choose one line that feels doable.
- Take one slow inhale through the nose and a longer, relaxed exhale.
- Read one section, then apply it immediately (even if it is imperfect).
TL;DR
- Three moves, four minutes. Box → Extended Exhale → Micro-Release.
- Smooth the opener. Give your first sentence a calm runway.
- Stay alert, not wired. Longer exhales drop adrenaline without knocking you flat.
- Let sound travel. Micro-Release unlocks jaw and shoulders so your tone stays warm.
Minute-by-minute reset
Minutes 0-2 - Box Breathing
Run Box Breathing (4-4-4-4) for two minutes. Equal inhale, hold, exhale, hold counts create an even tempo before you speak. Glance at the mistakes to avoid so the holds stay soft.
Minute 2-3 - Extended Exhale
Shift to Extended Exhale (4-6) for one minute. Longer out-breaths smooth adrenaline while you rehearse your lead line. Keep it easy by skimming the mistakes to avoid list before you start.
Minute 3-4 - Micro-Release
Finish with Micro-Release . Drop shoulders, soften jaw, and roll the neck once or twice. Two slow breaths finish the reset and warm the voice - double-check the mistakes to avoid so you do not rush the release.
What to say if you blank
Ground your eyes on a fixed point, exhale longer once, and use one of these ten-second scripts:
- “There are two ways to look at this. Short version first.” Deliver the headline, then the detail.
- “Give me one beat to pull that up.” Breathe out as you navigate. Your calm buys trust.
Make it stick
- Keep a sticky note with the three steps on your monitor so you can run the sequence between calendar blocks.
- Add a recurring 5-minute buffer before big meetings so the reset is protected time, not a maybe.
- Log how you felt before and after in your CRM or notes app. Patterns make the habit stick.
Extend the stack with FeelClear
Inside FeelClear, tap “Pre-meeting presence” to get audio guidance for this exact sequence sized to the minutes you have. When you are ready for the full meeting protocol, layer on the post-call decompression outlined in Presence Beats Facts: How Your Inner State Wins Client Meetings .
Related reads
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- 5 Minutes Before Your Interview: A Calm, Clear Reset
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- Sales manager: how to prepare your mind for a high-stakes meeting
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References
- Slow breathing improves autonomic balance and HRV in many individuals.
- Resonance-rate breathing around six breaths per minute supports mood and physiological regulation.
- Slow, paced breathing increases HRV and supports autonomic balance.
- Resonance-rate breathing (about six breaths per minute) leverages baroreflex loops to boost HRV.
- Micro-breaks under ten minutes increase vigor and reduce fatigue; performance impact depends on the task.
- Short rest breaks reduce eyestrain and discomfort without decreasing productivity.
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